The Basics of Surrogate Partner Therapy (SPT)
It’s a Triadic Model of Care where the therapist, client, and surrogate all work together.
Typical Order:
Client establishes relationship with Therapist.
Therapist contacts Surrogate Partner.
Initial consultation with Therapist - Surrogate Partner - Client.
The therapeutic triad begins.
We work in Dyads.
Client - Therapist
Client - Surrogate Partner
Therapist - Surrogate Partner
Periodic meetings of triad. (as needed)
Client and Surrogate Partner Closure, celebration, and completion of the relationship.
Therapist and Surrogate Partner process the end of the SPT.
Client continues with the therapist to work on lessons and feelings about the closure.
Structure of the Surrogate - Client relationship.
This is an interpersonal relationship, which is the foundation for discovery and the vehicle of change.
This relationship is both a therapeutic tool and a profoundly personal, intimate, and life changing experience.
A professional Surrogate Partner is both a skilled clinician and a supportive partner.
We must be:
Compassionate
Observant
Discerning
Creative
Authentic
Open, honest, and communicative.
Credit: Vena Blanchard